diff --git a/ClaimLink/ClaimLinkChatCommand.cs b/ClaimLink/ClaimLinkChatCommand.cs
index ad94de9..d2beda9 100644
--- a/ClaimLink/ClaimLinkChatCommand.cs
+++ b/ClaimLink/ClaimLinkChatCommand.cs
@@ -195,6 +195,8 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
         (int GroupId, Func<TextCommandResult> Action)
     > PendingActions = new();
 
+    internal static readonly Dictionary<string, string> LastCancelReason = new();
+
     private static TextCommandResult Stage(
         string playerUid,
         int groupId,
@@ -203,12 +205,13 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
     )
     {
         PendingActions[playerUid] = (groupId, action);
+        LastCancelReason.Remove(playerUid);
         return TextCommandResult.Success(
             $"{prompt} Use /claimlink confirm to proceed, or /claimlink cancel to cancel."
         );
     }
 
-    internal static void RemovePendingActionsForGroup(int groupId)
+    internal static void RemovePendingActionsForGroup(int groupId, string reason)
     {
         List<string>? toRemove = null;
         foreach (var (uid, entry) in PendingActions)
@@ -219,7 +222,19 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
             return;
 
         foreach (string uid in toRemove)
+        {
             PendingActions.Remove(uid);
+            LastCancelReason[uid] = reason;
+        }
+    }
+
+    internal static void CancelPendingAction(string uid, int groupId, string reason)
+    {
+        if (!PendingActions.TryGetValue(uid, out var pending) || pending.GroupId != groupId)
+            return;
+
+        PendingActions.Remove(uid);
+        LastCancelReason[uid] = reason;
     }
 
     private static TextCommandResult? TryResolveGroup(string groupName, out PlayerGroup group)
@@ -299,9 +314,14 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
         string playerUid = args.Caller.Player.PlayerUID;
 
         if (!PendingActions.TryGetValue(playerUid, out var pending))
+        {
+            if (LastCancelReason.Remove(playerUid, out string? reason))
+                return TextCommandResult.Error($"You do not have a pending action ({reason}).");
             return TextCommandResult.Error("You do not have a pending action.");
+        }
 
         PendingActions.Remove(playerUid);
+        LastCancelReason.Remove(playerUid);
         return pending.Action();
     }
 
@@ -458,7 +478,7 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
             $"'{groupName}' will be deleted as a claim link.",
             () =>
             {
-                RemovePendingActionsForGroup(groupId);
+                RemovePendingActionsForGroup(groupId, "claim link was deleted");
                 ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Remove(groupId);
                 return TextCommandResult.Success($"'{groupName}' is no longer a claim link.");
             }
@@ -608,7 +628,7 @@ public static class ClaimLinkChatCommand
                 )
             )
             {
-                RemovePendingActionsForGroup(groupId);
+                RemovePendingActionsForGroup(groupId, "group no longer exists");
                 ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Remove(groupId);
                 continue;
             }
diff --git a/ClaimLink/CommandListener.cs b/ClaimLink/CommandListener.cs
index e2b8d02..98ecd1b 100644
--- a/ClaimLink/CommandListener.cs
+++ b/ClaimLink/CommandListener.cs
@@ -173,27 +173,89 @@ public class GroupCommandListener : ICommandHookListener
     public CommandRegistration Registration => new(Before, After);
 
     internal static Dictionary<string, int> PendingDisbands = new Dictionary<string, int>();
+    internal static Dictionary<string, (string AffectedUid, int GroupId)> PendingMembershipChecks =
+        new Dictionary<string, (string, int)>();
 
     private TextCommandResult? Before(TextCommandCallingArgs args)
     {
         if (args.Caller.Player == null)
             return null;
 
+        string callerUid = args.Caller.Player.PlayerUID;
         CmdArgs rawArgs = args.RawArgs.Clone();
-        if (rawArgs.PopWord() != "confirmdisband")
-            return null;
+        string? word = rawArgs.PopWord();
 
+        switch (word)
+        {
+            case "confirmdisband":
+                ConfirmDisband(args, callerUid, rawArgs);
+                break;
+            case "leave":
+                Leave(args, callerUid, rawArgs);
+                break;
+            case "kick":
+                Kick(args, callerUid, rawArgs);
+                break;
+        }
+
+        return null;
+    }
+
+    private static void ConfirmDisband(
+        TextCommandCallingArgs args,
+        string callerUid,
+        CmdArgs rawArgs
+    )
+    {
         string? name = rawArgs.PopWord();
         int? groupId =
             name != null
                 ? ClaimLinkModSystem.Groups.GetPlayerGroupByName(name)?.Uid
                 : args.Caller.FromChatGroupId;
 
-        if (groupId == null)
-            return null;
+        if (groupId != null)
+            PendingDisbands[callerUid] = (int)groupId;
+    }
 
-        PendingDisbands[args.Caller.Player.PlayerUID] = (int)groupId;
-        return null;
+    private static void Leave(TextCommandCallingArgs args, string callerUid, CmdArgs rawArgs)
+    {
+        string? name = rawArgs.PopWord();
+        int? groupId =
+            name != null
+                ? ClaimLinkModSystem.Groups.GetPlayerGroupByName(name)?.Uid
+                : args.Caller.FromChatGroupId;
+
+        if (groupId != null)
+            PendingMembershipChecks[callerUid] = (callerUid, (int)groupId);
+    }
+
+    private static void Kick(TextCommandCallingArgs args, string callerUid, CmdArgs rawArgs)
+    {
+        string? word1 = rawArgs.PopWord();
+        string? word2 = rawArgs.PopWord();
+
+        string? targetName;
+        int? groupId;
+        if (word2 != null)
+        {
+            groupId =
+                word1 != null ? ClaimLinkModSystem.Groups.GetPlayerGroupByName(word1)?.Uid : null;
+            targetName = word2;
+        }
+        else
+        {
+            targetName = word1;
+            groupId = args.Caller.FromChatGroupId;
+        }
+
+        if (targetName == null || groupId == null)
+            return;
+
+        string? targetUid = ClaimLinkModSystem
+            .PlayerData.GetPlayerDataByLastKnownName(targetName)
+            ?.PlayerUID;
+        if (targetUid != null)
+            PendingMembershipChecks[callerUid] = (targetUid, (int)groupId);
     }
 
     private void After(TextCommandCallingArgs args, TextCommandResult result)
@@ -201,23 +263,45 @@ public class GroupCommandListener : ICommandHookListener
         if (args.Caller.Player == null)
             return;
 
-        string uid = args.Caller.Player.PlayerUID;
-        if (!PendingDisbands.TryGetValue(uid, out int groupId))
-            return;
+        string callerUid = args.Caller.Player.PlayerUID;
 
-        PendingDisbands.Remove(uid);
+        if (PendingDisbands.TryGetValue(callerUid, out int disbandedGroupId))
+        {
+            PendingDisbands.Remove(callerUid);
 
-        if (ClaimLinkModSystem.Groups.PlayerGroupsById.ContainsKey(groupId))
-            return;
+            if (!ClaimLinkModSystem.Groups.PlayerGroupsById.ContainsKey(disbandedGroupId))
+            {
+                ClaimLinkChatCommand.RemovePendingActionsForGroup(
+                    disbandedGroupId,
+                    "group no longer exists"
+                );
 
-        ClaimLinkChatCommand.RemovePendingActionsForGroup(groupId);
+                if (ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Exists(disbandedGroupId))
+                    ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Remove(disbandedGroupId);
+            }
+        }
 
-        if (ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Exists(groupId))
-            ClaimLinkModSystem.Registry.Remove(groupId);
+        if (PendingMembershipChecks.TryGetValue(callerUid, out var check))
+        {
+            PendingMembershipChecks.Remove(callerUid);
+
+            bool stillMember =
+                ClaimLinkModSystem
+                    .PlayerData.GetPlayerDataByUid(check.AffectedUid)
+                    ?.PlayerGroupMemberships.ContainsKey(check.GroupId) == true;
+
+            if (!stillMember)
+                ClaimLinkChatCommand.CancelPendingAction(
+                    check.AffectedUid,
+                    check.GroupId,
+                    "you are no longer a member of the group"
+                );
+        }
     }
 
     internal static void OnPlayerDisconnect(IServerPlayer player)
     {
         PendingDisbands.Remove(player.PlayerUID);
+        PendingMembershipChecks.Remove(player.PlayerUID);
     }
 }